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Post by sgev1977 on Nov 6, 2020 21:20:05 GMT
Actually losing a high profile role could help him in his USA lawsuit. It's very difficult there but the important thing is to show you lost money because the damage to your reputation. The big issue is that he also lost the first lawsuit.
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Post by dickens38 on Nov 6, 2020 23:38:13 GMT
The trouble with this kind of thing, is that no one but the people involved know the truth of the matter. So who does one believe?
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Post by onebluestocking on Nov 7, 2020 5:29:41 GMT
The lesson here is, don't leave your longtime partner and the mother of your child, for a girl half your age in an attempt to feel younger.
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Post by merej on Nov 7, 2020 7:57:46 GMT
The trouble with this kind of thing, is that no one but the people involved know the truth of the matter. So who does one believe? This very much.
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Post by sgev1977 on Nov 7, 2020 12:02:26 GMT
He risked when he filled those lawsuits and he lost it in a big way at least for now. I don't know but based in what they made public during the trial, I tend to believe her. He is more charismatic. That's for sure and it seems that in a some occasions she was also violent towards him (there is the infamous audios) but it seems to me that he has a severe problem with substances and he admitted during the trial that he forgot entire episodes and seemed unsure of what really happened. He sees himself as a victim but he also is completely lost. Apart of the big fight in which she says he had her prisoner and he says she cut his finger, there is the incident on a private plane. She said he hit her, he said he didn't and had a witness that corroborated him but she also had messages by the two men. Deep apologising to her the next day for what he did to her and Deep's witness asking her to please forgive him and telling her that the actor didn't remembered anything but was very mortified when he told him that he kicked her! I think that was devastating for his case!
Also the messages to his friends are pretty disturbing. It's not hard evidence because EXTREMELY dark jokes are not unlawful and there are not such things as crime thoughts but surely it didn't helped him that he was telling to Paul Bettany(!) that he wanted to drown her, burn her and then rape her burned body! He also "joked" with his ex-wife, the one he let for the younger woman, about smack his new young partner meanwhile both called her bitch and witch. It was clear that at certain point in the relationship, he totally dehumanized her.
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Post by queenzod on Nov 7, 2020 15:22:25 GMT
All those women who had previously been in relationship with him said that he never did anything like that to them, that he was a gentle & loving partner. Granted, things can get weird when you’re in a toxic relationship, but if he was an abuser, wouldn’t that have come out before? He started drinking too much b/c the situation was untenable & he couldn’t take any more, probably leading to some unfortunate scenarios.
Additionally, other people in relationships with AH have said she’s an abuser.
While it’s true none of us can know exactly what happened, I still think he took the lion’s share of the abuse, not gave. 🤷🏻♀️
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Post by mllemass on Nov 7, 2020 17:18:55 GMT
I don’t think that someone has to have a history of abuse to suddenly become abusive. Over the years, I’ve worked with people who treated me horribly while being sweet and kind to everyone else. I never did find out the reason, and I didn’t really care. There was nothing I could do about it because no one would believe me if I reported it to our boss. But it was puzzling!
Also, people can react differently to the same situation. One time, the top boss came to our workplace to speak with us about an ongoing problem. After he left, we stayed behind and continued our meeting without him. Everyone burst out with “Can you believe the way he spoke to us? He was so rude! There was no need for that tone!” I was absolutely stunned by their reaction. I was in the exact same meeting and heard everything he had said, just like they did. I didn’t hear any tone or rudeness. I thought about it a lot afterwards, and I came to the conclusion that because I had gown up with my gruff-sounding father always sounding like he was yelling, I had gotten used to that type of person. I knew that he was (and is) in fact a very gentle person. It’s funny, though, when I come across people who raise their voices to show that they’re angry. It has no effect at all on me, even when I probably should be scared.
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Post by dickens38 on Nov 8, 2020 3:07:46 GMT
As I said, what a mess!
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Post by queenzod on Nov 8, 2020 4:30:41 GMT
I JUST LOVE JOHNNY AND DONT WANT HIM TO BE BAD, OKAY? Give me my dreams, please! 🥺
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Post by merej on Nov 8, 2020 8:43:25 GMT
I JUST LOVE JOHNNY AND DONT WANT HIM TO BE BAD, OKAY? Give me my dreams, please! 🥺 
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