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Post by mllemass on Sept 19, 2023 15:17:03 GMT
A few years back, when teenagers having cell phones became an ordinary thing, high school boys here made the news because it was discovered that they were sharing intimate photos of their girlfriends. A boy’s mother found the photos on his phone and freaked out - mainly because her poor baby felt forced into participating. Oh please! The girls had no idea it was going on. It was like a perverted boys’ club. The boys had to convince their girlfriends into sending explicit photos of themselves. The boys then shared the photos with the other boys who had also shared photos. Nobody forced the boys - but they would only be shown girls’ photos if they added to it.
The high schools brought in counsellors to help the victims (the girls), but the parents lost their minds because the local tv news had covered the story! They said that it was child pornography! The news director had to make a statement explaining why they showed the blurred photos of the girls (where no one could be identified). They felt that too many people would think that the photos showed maybe low-cut or off-the-shoulder outfits on the girls, but no! I was shocked at what these boys had told the girls to do for the camera.
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Post by mllemass on Sept 19, 2023 15:37:39 GMT
I just watched that YouTube video. Wow! And also yuck!
I’ve been saying that for decades! I will never tolerate movies that show fully-clothed men with undressed women. I don’t care how they can explain why such a scene is necessary- it’s not! And yes, showing the women pleased to be watched by the men makes me want to scream!
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Post by queenzod on Sept 19, 2023 15:58:35 GMT
Yup, revolting, isn’t it? I’ve been watching that stuff for decades and it never really hit home for me how disgusting and nasty it is.
I had a rewatch of Pillow Talk, with Doris Day and Rock Hudson, a few months ago. I used to love that movie when I was young - it seemed so grown up to me. This time I wanted to throw my tv across the room. She’s all fake prudish and he’s an absolute dog. And she falls in love with him even after she realizes he’s just been using/manipulating her the whole time! He just manhandles and humiliates her at the end and suddenly she’s all soft and agreeable. Horrendous.
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Post by jbc12 on Sept 19, 2023 16:57:02 GMT
That was an excellent video, thank you for sharing QZ. I especially liked the points about how the audience is complicit and how we can't correct for the male gaze by using the female gaze. It covered a lot and was incredibly well done.
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