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Post by sgev1977 on Oct 13, 2018 2:28:16 GMT
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Post by mllemass on Oct 13, 2018 4:08:40 GMT
I know I’ve mentioned this before:
A few years back, when a co-worker filed an official harassment complaint against me, he made a lot of false accusations, including that I had sent him emails that made him “uncomfortable”. I guess he figured that there was no way for me to prove that he was lying about how he had felt. But I had archived all my emails for the years I worked there, mainly because there were too many to read through and delete.
So for my defence, I printed out the emails he referred to and submitted them to our employer to read. Those “uncomfortable” email exchanges included emails from him where he thanked me profusely for my help, told me jokes, said I was the “greatest”, and asked me for my help with something. Many were sent to me late at night. When my employer told him that they had read the actual emails and that they contradicted what he had told them, he responded that it was “creepy” that I had kept his emails, and that, too, made him “uncomfortable.”
I was found innocent of those harassment charges in the end. That whole ordeal was a horrible nightmare, but I’m so grateful that I was too lazy to delete my emails! They turned out to be a lifesaver for me.
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Post by queenzod on Oct 13, 2018 8:38:43 GMT
Pardon my French, but if that motherf*cker gets off I’m going to riot.
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Post by sgev1977 on Oct 13, 2018 13:57:16 GMT
I know I’ve mentioned this before: A few years back, when a co-worker filed an official harassment complaint against me, he made a lot of false accusations, including that I had sent him emails that made him “uncomfortable”. I guess he figured that there was no way for me to prove that he was lying about how he had felt. But I had archived all my emails for the years I worked there, mainly because there were too many to read through and delete. So for my defence, I printed out the emails he referred to and submitted them to our employer to read. Those “uncomfortable” email exchanges included emails from him where he thanked me profusely for my help, told me jokes, said I was the “greatest”, and asked me for my help with something. Many were sent to me late at night. When my employer told him that they had read the actual emails and that they contradicted what he had told them, he responded that it was “creepy” that I had kept his emails, and that, too, made him “uncomfortable.” I was found innocent of those harassment charges in the end. That whole ordeal was a horrible nightmare, but I’m so grateful that I was too lazy to delete my emails! They turned out to be a lifesaver for me. I should be super creepy because I keep ALL my old e-mails! With the exception of jokes and spam, of course! I have e-mails from when I was doing my thesis (almost 20 years ago!).
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Post by mllemass on Oct 13, 2018 14:49:34 GMT
When my job ended a couple of years ago, I had to find a way to keep my emails after I would no longer have a work email address. It took me a while, but I turned them all into documents and saved them onto a memory stick. That might be creepy, too, but it makes me feel safer knowing that I have an accurate record of what really happened.
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Post by sgev1977 on Oct 13, 2018 18:54:22 GMT
I don’t think it’s creepy! It’s kind of obvious to me but I work in archive so maybe that’s why! You just take care of (the relevant) document.
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Post by sgev1977 on May 17, 2020 0:43:41 GMT
More houses gossip from the DM,
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Post by queenzod on May 17, 2020 4:58:16 GMT
Five bedrooms? Room for meeee! 😂
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